Use the right approach

Condemning people neither changes nor makes them better, it only turns their heart tough or stubborn. Rather, exemplary life, sound teaching, wise counsel, timely correction in love and prayers makes an effective approach to impact change in others.

Master Jesus demonstrated these and made a lot of lasting disciples by the influence of His lifestyle. The Pharisees in their own self appraisal as 'hypocritical masters of perfection' did a lot of condemnation but never had anyone changed for better.

People with shallow depth of value system and personal effectiveness complain the most, often being the first to cast stones on others for mistakes but lacks workable ideas to effect improvements.

Such folks portray themselves like wanting positive results but set their minds to see only negatives, so how would they make white clothes if their cotton is black? No how!

To produce white fabrics for the body (external parade), first grow white cotton in the mind (internal purity). Mindset is key! A change of mindset is the first and most effective prescription for a hypocrite's transformation.

Be an influencer rather than a condemner.

#WisdomDose

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